2021.10.27 08:21 kirbyfan91 ye guys he was right there
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2021.10.27 08:21 acheesecurdgirl cautionary tale- NEVER DATE INSECURE PPL
I 31F after 7 years and being engaged my ex 37m broke up with me
we both come from different countries I had always had the wish to move to a third country of my families origin and be able to study there but that required learning a language.
I was able to get the passport in a long process (2 years) which my ex did with me voluntarily. We agreed I'd move first and after a year when i was settled he'd move with me. After a year he kept making excuses so i broke up with him and he traveled to see me to say he'd move and asked me to marry him. however during that trip after all the celebrating and excitement all he wanted to do was go on vacation and he took no steps towardrds moving or learning the language although with my help it would've been much eassier. Also no date for a wedding was set nor was there any planning.
Eventually he'd take off and ghost me first for a few days and eventually for what turned out to be 6 months. during those periods he'd say he didnt want me in hes life aka would dump me. So i'd go on dates talk to new people etc... and each time he'd accuse me of cheating and procedingly punish me by ghosting me further and it was a cycle. meanwhile i found out he had been talking to other girls online making plans to meet them. he'd come to see me and act suspicious pick up fights etc this whole process of inmigration started 2016.
Finally on 2018 I had arraged an appartment for us and he acted extremely weird as I explained the documents needed for the contract he was not open about hes finances and expected me to discuss this with hes parents not him. as he arrived he refused to pay hes half. which by the way I was a student and he had been working full time and had saved enough moeny up for 6 months of expenses. Upon arrival he didn't allow me to help him whatsoever with hes job search or paperwork although he didn't speak the language at all. I was left to deal with the landlord and a non paid deposit for 3 weeks he refused to adress her.
So I had a Gold object to sell in case of emergency and I offered him to sell it to pay hes half but he insisted he thought the apartment was a scam although he never spoke to the landlord or met her and she offered to do so on several ocassion all because she was russian and apparently hes ethnical family group has something against russians. honestly I myself have no complaints she was extremely generous in the deal she offered us very spatious apartment in the cenetr of the city extremely hard to come by. so i had to hire a lawyer to explain to my ex what the rules are and how the contract was valid nevertheless he still refused to pay hes part or let me sell my object to cover it. So i gave him my Gold object as a back up under the promis he'd pay hes half and take my object if we couldnt confirm the contract was valid and if upon leaving the landlord refused to give us back the deposit.
well jokes on me cause he took mx gold object didnt pay anything and started threatening with leaving knowing he hadnt signed the lease yet.
He finally agreed to pay a portion of hes half all in time for next months rent as i was working and studying and could afford the place by myself and he was still refusing to give back my gold object. And it got to the point where I'd get home to find him drinking and smoking inside the appartment (smoking is forbiden and could cost us our deposit) And upon request it got lets just say "mildly violent" where some of the landlords furniture was damaged. I conlcuded to call the police and have him forced out of there so I could return the apartment.
needless to say the landlord was the hero here she let me give the apartment back and refunded the full deposit which i kept as he kept my gold object which was worth more than the deposit anyway.
we continued to try to salvage our relationship after that but he always acted entittled.
all of this contempt based on hes insecurities cause hes a bit overwheight , like he would be upset about me talking to friends going on social activities talking too much to my family any males at work or school .
he'd go for runs and refuse to shower and get in bed all sweaty eventually moved to the coach and refuse to comunicate with me the whole time refuse to eat with me, had every password to all my social media my find my friends my bank account I'd let him use my phone he'd have the only key to the appartment. and to this day he claims I'm a slut and I ruined everything.
its been awfullly draining and heartbreaking
moral of the story what can go wrong giving someone insecure a chance? plenty this is not even the half of it.
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2021.10.27 08:21 calmkat Petition to ban posts about Shoe0nhead (unless she's directly involved in Vaush content)
The non-stop slew of posts screencapping her tweets and comments bordering on mysogyny have gotten out of hand. alialialien made a post documenting the latter(https://www.reddit.com/VaushV/comments/qgoul5/i_think_it_might_be_time_to_address_this/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) and you only need ctrl + f "shoe" on this sub to see the former.
The thing is, 90 % of these posts have NOTHING to do with Vaush, they're just character assassinations of a totally different Youtuber. Seriously, who cares what what is essentialy Vaush's coworker thinks of vaccine mandates? Also, I personally don't use Twitter, so people will show content I and many others would otherwise never see and say "we need to talk about this". Do we? Do we need to talk about a different person on a different platform with a different audience? No, and this sub can't respect that, so discussion of Shoe should be banned cause y'all can't behave.
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2021.10.27 08:21 These-Advantage-9476 😌❤️
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2021.10.27 08:21 Stunning-Inspector22 How to step up your design game?
I am officially a mid level Designer, however I have 2,5 years only of experience and everything in the same company. I have graduated from a bootcamp before starting working so I didn’t know design at all before.
I am stuck between “I know a lot” and “I’m just a fraud” and I wonder if you have tips to step up my design game. Do you know tools that give you design challenges? Great tutorials references for figma? The best UX process resources?
I’m open to anything!
Also would love to find a peer review group or something like that
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2021.10.27 08:21 G3ML1NGZ Where I relax and create.
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2021.10.27 08:21 6amrani_2013s Looks perfect in a poster frame!
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2021.10.27 08:21 4Serious20 How can I start my animation (objectAnimator) with the modified values from a ValueAnimator? (JAVA / XML)
The changes are working perfectly if I test them with an Log.d, but I want to affect them on my animation (maybe with save them in the preferences?). Because my animation (animation2) starts, but with the standard values of the XML, not the "updated" / temporarily edited values (from pivotX).
Please visit my question. I hope someone can help me. Thanks in advance!
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2021.10.27 08:21 Ok_Measurement3448 My laptop is stuck in flight mode, and have tried all tutorials and steps.
Hey there, I don’t know if this is the right sub, (If it isn’t, apologies.)
My computer suddenly turned onto flight mode yesterday, and it’s now stuck in that setting. I went into my own settings on it, but it won’t let me turn it off. (Like it’s disabled, or I don’t have a command to do it.)
I use a Dell laptop if it helps, I think it’s a newer model. The pc is second hand, I am a noob when it comes to this stuff, and I’ve tried most of tutorials that seemed promising. I don’t know if I’ve destroyed or minimized my options by doing so though. I should mention, I tried troubleshooting, but because you’d need internet for it. Yeah. All or most stuff I have tried again and again. A friend recommended top keys, shortcuts, still nothing works. The switch for internet on the side I tried too.
Anyway. If anyone needs pictures or other information, I’m happy to give as much as I can. Thought without wifi capability, I don’t think I could offer much. The general problem is my computer is stuck in flight mode, can’t turn on wifi or internet, tried a bunch of different tutorials but I’m still on square one practically.
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2021.10.27 08:21 goatmil2k How do you justify eating meat even though you love animals?
2021.10.27 08:21 Brief-Ear2697 Kinda amazing how I predicted this to be late even before its initial scan
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2021.10.27 08:21 BlairOnHoliday Tips on streamlining the FM experience
Hello FM people. I'm used to be obsessed with FM. From Championship Manager. A few years ago I really couldn't make time to be as obsessed with this game as I used to. I got a code for FM22 from a mate who works in the industry and I see they've removed the touch version. Can I still get a streamlined approach with the full game? Looking for tips. I just want to do tactics, scouting, transfers and youth development. Is it just a case of hiring really good staff and assigning them the tasks I don't want to do?
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2021.10.27 08:21 Frustmaster Quiet walking because of elite level Covert movement?
I don’t know if that’s a bug or anyone else experienced that but sometimes when I’m adssing and walk after that my footsteps for me seems very quiet…my teammate said they sound normally for him. Also when I’m move the mousewheel even to go slower the footsteps become normally loud for me again.
Me as a rat I managed to reach Elite with Covert Movement but I’m not really sure if this has something to do with it. Even if others would hear me normally loud I still like it because I can hear much better while walking…
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2021.10.27 08:21 bhavinjain260 Why does ear(1) app and android system shows different percentage of battery?
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2021.10.27 08:21 Ikkirim Be wary - opulent rear precipitates a dizzying fall
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2021.10.27 08:21 ___Stranger Poizon was removed from Col due to his attitude and work ethic
2021.10.27 08:21 fbaiak Town with 10 villagers
2021.10.27 08:21 shibapupper Where can I donate a large (opened) bag of dry dog food?
Anyone know where I could donate a very large bag of dry dog food? I believe my dog is allergic to whatever is in it and I'd rather it not go to waste, but I know a lot of shelters only accept food if it hasn't been opened. Before I give it away on FB, I'd like to know if there was an organization/shelterescue I could give it to. Thanks. :)
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2021.10.27 08:21 CompetitiveShower238 This relaxing white noise is great for helping you sleep, study or focus.Create a peaceful ambience with this 3 hour white noise video.Enjoy videos that showcase different moods, such as sounds of rain, wind, forest, ocean, fire or space. Have a nice day;)
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2021.10.27 08:21 MissesMeredith Crowdfunding? Go for it.
I just wanted to hop on and say, if you’re like my husband and I were nervous about doing a crowdfunding campaign, just go for it.
We were determined to not ask for help, but as the cases started rolling in, we found that what we had initially set aside was not enough. I was emotional and exhausted and felt helpless so I thought, to hell with it. Doesn’t hurt to ask.
The outpouring of support has been so amazing. We are halfway to our goal in less than 24 hours. I don’t even have social media to share our go fund me on, this is purely from the outreach that my friends and family have done by sharing our page and our story.
Short story is people WANT to help you. Try giving them the opportunity and watch your community show up for you. It is incredible to see just how invested (besides financially) friends, family, and even strangers are in seeing that you and your growing family succeeds. I’m hoping this can encourage another future adoptive parent on this sub who may have the same feelings about fundraising as we did. Wishing you the best! ♥️
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2021.10.27 08:21 Taxfraud777 Having to use slide grease for the second valve???
I throroughly cleaned my trumpet today with the monster oil cleaning kit. The kit was great and my trumpet sound very clean now, but the second valve still feels like it needs some more oil. I followed a video on Youtube where someone used valve oil for all three valves, but the kit instructions tell me that I need to use slide grease for the second valve. Kind of at a loss and it's not really explained in what way I need to apply the slide grease, only that it needs to be a generous amount. So does the second valve need slide grease? and if so, why and how do you apply it correctly?
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2021.10.27 08:21 zsreport How Gerrymandering stifles potential voters and candidates as well as skews policy
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2021.10.27 08:21 CorbAlb Best window managers for switching from KDE?
I've been meaning to switch to a window manager for some time now but i'm not sure about which of the many window managers I should go for.
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2021.10.27 08:21 weehf57 Any advice on the best platform for trading options in the UK?
So I want to lay calls on oil and Puts on natural Gas… my retard thinking is Russia are going to eventually sort the Gas shortage but the Middle East are going to play hardball with the oil.. I normally just buy stocks.. so likely about to spunk a few grand, just wondering what is the best platform to make my donation to?
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2021.10.27 08:21 SarahDowson Two baby Calathea Warscewiczii arrived from Holland a week ago. Both repotted on arrival and both opened new leaves within a few days. Both were growing in a densely packed plug which I removed prior to planting
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